INTERRACIAL DATING
Why Americans Should Date Russian Women
Are you worried that you can’t get a date? Perhaps you are anxious since you think you’re just an average guy?
You aren’t the only one. There are millions of Americans who find themselves struggling with dating. With the dating scene changing almost every year, some people just can’t keep up with what’s modern, particularly in the United States.
So some turn to dating overseas.
It’s that way that they get the opportunity to date beautiful Russian women. These Russian women, after all, are a hot topic among men. A lot of single Americans want to date one for many reasons and who can blame them? It makes sense that you also want to date and marry one.
You may need to make adjustments to your approach so you can successfully flirt with and date one though. They aren’t like American women, after all. Plus, the different cultures come into play with how they act so you best get your research done first.
Luckily for you, we’re going to cover some of the most important factors here and then give you pointers on how to date a Russian lady.
Let’s start by learning a bit about Russia and its women.
There are more women than there are men in Russia
Americans aren’t the only ones who find it difficult to find a life partner. In Russia, there are many more women than men, which creates an initial imbalance.
According to Pew Research, the former Soviet Union stands out from the rest of the world as a region that has been predominantly female ever since World War 2. Back then, men went to war and died in battle, leaving the women behind. Russian men also have an unusually high mortality rate, due to several reasons including lifestyle. They are expected to live until they turn 64 while women are at 75.
It’s been getting better the past few years but the ratio is still around 86 men per 100 women. That’s significantly less than America, which has a ratio of 98.3 men per 100 women.
This predicament is why there are so many Russian women willing to put themselves out there in hopes of finding a decent man to marry. After all, Russia is a very old country and its men are mostly traditional. Its women prefer men who know how to take charge.
It certainly doesn’t help that some of them have no option but to look abroad for a husband, since the population seems to be shrinking at an alarming rate.
Russians don’t have the “hookup” culture
In Russia, you are either dating or you aren’t. There are no “friends with benefits” or “situationships,” both of which are now completely common in America.
As stated above, Russia is an old country, one of the oldest, in fact. Most of the people there are very traditional. No matter how much the internet influences them to be more open-minded, some teachings and morals remain.
While they can be serial monogamists, they are generally more committed to their relationships compared to Americans. But realistically, cheating still exists. They just have more of a divide between “the official girlfriend” and “the sidechick”.
Keep this in mind when you woo a Russian.
How to get one to date you
Okay, first things first: Russian women will not make the first move.
The first move belongs to you. The women there prefer it when the men take the lead. You won’t be getting anywhere if you wait around, okay? So if you see one you like, you go over there and initiate conversation.
Tips on how to impress her:
- Dress to kill — You may not have the handsome face most women gravitate to but if there’s one thing women never overlook, it’s how a man dresses. Russian women especially like it when a man knows how to make himself look expensive.
Truth bomb: Women are attracted to rich men. They may deny it or they may not even like the guy nor want to date him, but it’s still in their instincts to be attracted to those who are financially stable, since it’s a guarantee of security. Because if you can provide for a woman, then you are officially husband-material. It’s a very basic instinct.
- Take the lead — This needs to be hammered in because they like their men taking the lead. Most Russian women like doers, not talkers. They prefer men who don’t waste their energy talking and instead use it on doing something useful.
For them the more you talk, the less serious you seem. When we say “take the lead”, it simply means you should be a man and act like it. Be serious but gentle. Be disciplined but warm. You can open up, of course, but tone down the achievements lest you start to sound cocky.
- Show that you are serious and that you are capable of being a family man — The majority of the Russian women you will meet dream of having a family of their own. This is probably the biggest trait to becoming husband-material. The more you show that you are capable of being a husband and a father, the more she will like you.
They’re looking outside their country for a husband. So show her that you can be hers.
Where to find Russian ladies to date?
Have you ever heard of Singles Tours? Because that’s how you meet hundreds of beautiful Russian women who are not only single, they are also ready to mingle.
If you go on a Russian tour, you will be able to spend about a week in Russia. It’s every man’s dream vacation wherein you get to travel with a lovely Russian girl around your arm. And that’s after you get to party with hundreds of these women alongside your fellow single men also looking for a date.
It’s the fastest and easiest way to get a date and a wife. Plus, you won’t be left alone on your devices if you’re confused on what to do because there will be matchmakers and translators that guide you.
If this is the kind of thing you can get behind, then come join the tours!
Make that first move
This cannot be addressed enough, can it? Don’t be the type to wait around for a Russian girl to suddenly fall into your lap. A lot of women are also doing the same, waiting for the man of their dreams to suddenly appear. Since you’re the man in this equation, you should be the one to go up to her instead.
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